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At Nature's Pace PMQ offers compassionate, evidence-informed support for individuals, communities, and organisations seeking greater wellbeing and resilience. Emily Barber provides one-on-one wellness sessions, Emotional Kintsugi, trauma peer support, recovery coaching, mental health and wellbeing support, and personalised guidance for those navigating life's challenges. She also delivers psychoeducation, seminars, workshops, organisational wellbeing programs, policy development, and keynote presentations on topics including mental health, resilience, trauma-informed practice, recovery, and personal growth. Whether you're looking for individual support or would like to engage Emily as a speaker or facilitator for your workplace, school, community group, or event, we'd love to hear from you. For more information about our services or to discuss how we can support your needs, please contact us.

Private recovery coaching tailored to your experiences, responsibilities, and goals.
A person can be capable, accomplished, and respected while privately struggling with substance dependence, trauma, or emotional distress.
- You may have been able to continue working, leading, travelling, parenting, or carrying significant responsibility while privately struggling. From the outside, your life may have appeared successful and functional, while internally you were relying increasingly on alcohol or other substances or unhealthy coping behaviours to manage stress, emotional pain, trauma, exhaustion, or disconnection.
- You may have recently completed residential or outpatient treatment and now wondering how to translate what you learned into everyday life. Alternatively, you may never have attended a rehabilitation program but recognise that your relationship with alcohol, another substance, or an unhealthy coping behaviour is no longer sustainable.
Private Recovery Coaching provides thoughtful, trauma-informed education and practical support tailored to your personal circumstances, professional responsibilities, and preferred pathway to recovery.
Recovery does not occur separately from work, family, travel, leadership, or established responsibilities.
Generic advice may not adequately address the realities of:
- Returning to a demanding professional role after treatment.
- Managing workplace events where alcohol is present.
- Travelling regularly while maintaining recovery routines.
- Protecting privacy in a visible or high-responsibility position.
- Rebuilding trust within important relationships.
- Managing stress, trauma responses and emotional dysregulation.
- Developing a meaningful life beyond professional achievement.
- Finding appropriate support without adopting a recovery model that does not feel right for you.
Support is tailored to your individual circumstances, life experience, recovery journey and professional responsibilities. Your sessions will reflect your background, responsibilities, relationships, recovery history and current support network.
Rather than following a standardised program, sessions are adapted to your experiences, priorities, responsibilities, and recovery goals. Each session is individually tailored to recognise the complexity of your life, including your professional responsibilities, personal relationships, recovery experience and existing supports.
Your recovery support is designed around your circumstances, strengths, challenges, and the life you are working to rebuild.
Private Recovery Coaching may be suitable for individuals who:
You do not need to have attended rehabilitation or received a formal diagnosis to access the service.
Recovery coaching combines practical planning, psychoeducation, accountability, and lived-experience-informed support.
Sessions may explore:
Understanding your recovery patterns
Develop greater awareness of cravings, triggers, emotional states, high-risk situations, and the role substance use has played in your life.
Developing a personal recovery structure
Create routines, supports and practical strategies that can be maintained alongside your professional and personal responsibilities.
Trauma-informed recovery
Understand how trauma, chronic stress, shame, hypervigilance, emotional overwhelm or disconnection may affect your recovery.
The focus is on present-day understanding, stabilisation, and practical coping. You will not be asked to describe traumatic experiences in detail.
Returning to professional life
Prepare for workplace pressures, business travel, professional events, leadership responsibilities and questions from colleagues.
Strengthening emotional regulation
Develop grounding, nervous-system awareness, and practical strategies for managing distress without returning automatically to old coping patterns.
Navigating relationships
Consider how recovery affects trust, communication, boundaries, intimacy, and family expectations.
Exploring recovery pathways
Review professional treatment, peer-support groups, twelve-step fellowships, and other recovery resources without being pressured into one model.
Rebuilding identity and purpose
Move beyond an identity defined only by work, substance use or treatment and begin developing a life that feels meaningful and worth protecting.
There is no single recovery pathway that is appropriate for every person.
Your recovery plan may include a combination of:
Where helpful, sessions can include neutral education about Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, and other twelve-step fellowships.
This service is not affiliated with AA, NA, or any other twelve-step organisation. It is not a sponsor–sponsee relationship, does not replace sponsorship and does not involve taking clients through the Twelve Steps.
The purpose of twelve-step familiarisation is to help you understand the model and make an informed decision about whether any part of it may be useful to you.
A standalone 90-minute online session designed to provide clarity on your current situation and the most appropriate next steps. Together, we'll review your substance-use and recovery history, discuss your current circumstances, identify priorities, explore suitable recovery pathways and supports, set initial recovery goals, and provide a brief written Recovery Strategy Summary.
Private Recovery Foundations is a personalised recovery coaching program that provides structured, individual support for building and strengthening long-term recovery. It includes a 90-minute assessment, five private coaching sessions, a tailored Recovery Support Plan, curated resources, weekly check-ins, and a practical 90-day Recovery Integration Plan. Together, we'll address your unique challenges and develop sustainable strategies for lasting recovery.
Extended Recovery Support is available following a Strategy Session or completion of Private Recovery Foundations. Options may include ongoing coaching, post-treatment support, return-to-work planning, travel preparation, family sessions, treatment coordination (with your consent), and additional support during major life transitions. The scope and fees are agreed in advance. This is not an on-call, crisis-response, or continuous monitoring service.

Privacy is particularly important when your personal circumstances could affect your professional identity, reputation, or relationships.
Sessions are conducted online and are not recorded without your express written agreement.
You are encouraged to attend from a private location where you can speak without being overheard.
Information discussed during sessions is treated confidentially, subject to any applicable legal or ethical obligations relating to immediate safety, harm to others, child safety or other mandatory reporting requirements.
Further information about privacy, record keeping, communication and confidentiality will be provided before your first session.
Emily brings together professional education, trauma-informed training and lived experience of substance-use recovery and residential treatment.
Her background includes:
Emily understands that someone can be educated, capable and professionally accomplished while privately struggling.
Her approach is practical, compassionate, and non-judgmental. She does not require clients to adopt a particular recovery identity or view themselves through one fixed model of addiction.
Lived experience is used thoughtfully and only when it supports the client’s understanding and goals.
Private Recovery Coaching is a non-clinical coaching and psychoeducational service.
It is not:
Sessions do not involve intentionally revisiting or processing traumatic memories.
Recovery coaching can complement professional treatment but does not replace it. Where your needs fall outside the scope of the service, you may be encouraged to seek assistance from an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.
This service is not appropriate for an immediate crisis.
If you are experiencing severe intoxication or withdrawal, psychosis, mania, suicidal thoughts, an immediate risk of harm or another medical or mental-health emergency, contact emergency services or an appropriate crisis service in your current location.
Do not wait for a coaching appointment or email response during an emergency.
You do not need to have everything resolved before asking for support.
A Recovery Strategy Session can help you understand where you are, identify what may be placing your recovery at risk and decide what type of support would be most useful.
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